The Three Big Lies: Setting Yourself Up for Success in a Complex World

Is the advice you've been given about success actually holding you back? In this episode of Big Hitters, Larry Weidel is joined by his long-time "right-hand man" and son, Adam Weidel, to dismantle three common myths that prevent people from reaching the top. From challenging the "follow your passion" narrative to explaining why absolute balance is often just another word for mediocrity, Larry and Adam provide a raw, no-nonsense look at what it actually takes to build a multi-million dollar career. You’ll learn how to navigate the "money game" of life, why "extras" are the only path to greatness, and how to maintain patience while grinding day in and day out.

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Success isn't found in a textbook; it’s figured out on the run through complexity and paradox.

In this candid conversation, Larry Weidel and Adam Weidel—a three-time North Carolina Strongman Champion and top financial services performer—break down the "three big lies" that trap aspiring achievers in a cycle of stagnation. They explore the reality that you often find your passion by first getting good at something that pays the bills, rather than waiting for inspiration to strike.

Larry shares his personal journey from the "living hell" of transitioning industries and surviving on food stamps to building a massive financial services organization. Together, they discuss why the pursuit of "balance" often keeps people from the "surges" required to get a dream off the ground. This episode is a masterclass in the mental game of winning, emphasizing that while you must be patient for results, you must never be patient in your hustle.

What You’ll Learn:

Why getting good at a profitable skill often leads to enjoying the work more than "following your heart" ever could.
Why you must "slam the thing down" and be intentionally off-balance to achieve something fantastic.
How to navigate the "money game" to gain the independence needed to pursue your true interests.
Why greatness is only reached by doing what others aren't willing to do.
The Predatory Sales Trap and Why It Disqualifies You from Building a Billion-Dollar Enterprise
How to work like a dog and stay in the "hustle" while waiting for your efforts to compound.